Confidence Builder Extraordinaire!

 

I was working at a stable when I first saw Cathie’s business card tacked on the wall.  Somehow I knew I would meet up with her someday.  I didn’t have a horse of my own, but was working on finishing my barn and getting one very soon. Sure enough I met Cathie when she came to work with some horses at the stable and even though she didn’t know me from Adam, after talking briefly she offered to let me come over and ride her horse.   I thought that was pretty cool.  Shortly thereafter, at 41 years of age, I finally got my first horse.  Danny Boy was 9 years old at the time and I didn’t have much history on him, except that he was a slow poke and was described to be a “jerk” (not my choice of words) in a ring.  But he was advertised as a beginner’s horse.  Right away I knew that he was a little more than testing me with his domineering behaviors.  From refusing to pick up his feet, and then “falling” while I was cleaning his hooves and pulling his back feet away and kicking out at me, to swinging his head aggressively at me and practically running me over.   I could handle him o.k., but did not know how to go about changing his behavior.  I had no training experience and did not even know how to lunge him.  I also did not know what his aggressiveness potential was.  I called Cathie to come work with us.  She has helped me tremendously in so many ways.  She doesn’t just train my horse, but she trains me with patience (most of the time) J and is very affirming and encouraging.  We have gone from groundwork with the lead, to now free lunging and she has started teaching me how to deal with behaviors while in the saddle.  I knew that there was a good horse in Danny Boy, and who knows what he has been through…. He is not the cuddliest horse, but sometimes he forgets the tough guy exterior and extends his head to me gently to let me kiss his eyelid.  I am so grateful that God put Cathie in my life just at the right time.  She is an excellent horse and people trainer!  Teddianne Parent